8 thoughts on “Relationship Spread”

1. Diana Rogers April 19, 2026 at 4:28 pm

   I apologize for how long it has taken me to respond – I am very ill and even responding to questions is exhausting for me. Jagr, trust yourself – you cut her off out of anger, which was a choice, rather than choosing to communicate your feelings. The result was her silence. Accept what is and move on. If it is meant to come back around, it will – if not, you made the right choice. Diana
2. Jagr December 5, 2025 at 9:01 am

   This feels like a long shot but I’m desperate for clarification here.

   I did this spread with a woman who did not respond to my messages, and it got to the point to where I just cut her off entirely. I did this so I could move on with my life without ambiguity, but the seemingly meaningless nature of us meeting angers me to no end. Even now, as I sit here in a different country I am seething with anger and hatred at this seemingly pointless suffering.

   Without her invitation to meet her I would have never met her in real life, and without meeting her I wouldn’t have wanted to take an active role it supporting her beyond just monetary donations. There were synchronicities before like me meeting her in a dream and learning her name through that dream, but that doesn’t anger me as much as what she did in real life.

   This is personal but perhaps it can be of some help to others too. I don’t know I’m desperate so here goes:

   1. The Emperor
   2. Temperance
   3. The Magician
   4. Judgment
   5. The Chariot
   6. The Lovers
   7. The Hierophant
   8. The Empress
   9. Death

   For clarification, I did this reading before I cut off her. If the reading was ALL major arcana cards, how could the relationship be so easily destroyed? What am I missing here?
3. diana Post authorOctober 23, 2020 at 4:13 pm

   The Cups represent your Heart/Emotional Cards – when you do not understand something that is being said – just move on … within the readings there are sentences or statements that elicit a strong emotional response. Listen to those. Diana
4. ila September 16, 2020 at 10:46 am

   I’m not sure how to interpret the 9 of cups in position 7 (the direction they want it to go towards) and the outcome being Queen of cups. Please advise, many thank you’s.
5. diana Post authorJune 18, 2015 at 4:50 pm

   Cups are your “heart” cards, the three of cups shares your ability to “love” is growing beyond just “you and I”. Love is so much more than just a “relationship”, it can be seen/felt/shown in all that you do.
6. Mi June 15, 2015 at 9:34 am

   Aspects of Your Relationship to Consider = what does it mean when Three of cups lands here? It was placed next to the Sun, with Tower as current state. Thank you in advance, love this tarot homepage
7. diana Post authorMay 18, 2015 at 10:49 am

   The Wands are your communication with your higher spirit. The five of Wands would suggest that you are in the process of learning to balance your relationships – learning to move away from “I win / You win” and finding ways to create “win-win” relationships
8. angie May 18, 2015 at 1:09 am

   What does upright five of wands mean in terms of relationship?